Scene - At the bus stop waiting for the bus to arrive. There is only a single chair and I settle in and pull out my phone and make a call. Too busy talking on the phone I vaguely realize that I am no longer alone at the stop, there was someone else shuffling towards the bus stop as well. He comes over and looks around.
Me : (Distracted from the phone) Do you want to sit on the chair? I am fine with standing.
Him : Oh no thanks. I thought there used to be 2 chairs here.
I go back to my phone conversation while he settles himself on the ground. A couple of minutes pass .
Him : I will tell you when the bus arrives.
I have moved my chair to the shade, which means I cannot see when a bus is approaching. Still on the phone I smile and acknowledge his offer of assistance.
Him : (A couple more minutes later) I will tell you when the bus arrives.
Something is wrong here. I look at him more carefully. Graying hairs, sagging skin he looks like someone who grew old too quickly. One must be kind to the elderly so -
Me: Are you sure you don't want to sit to this chair?
Him : I am fine here. You sit on that chair. I will tell you when the bus arrives.
A couple minutes later my phone conversation is done and I settle in the chair waiting for the bus to arrive.
Him: You are very kind. Its not often that you meet people who are this good.
Right about then it hits me. Or rather it kind of wafts up my nose; The smell of alcohol coming from his general direction. Under ordinary circumstances I stay far far away from drunks. But here I have trapped myself. I pretend to not hear him.
But he does not seem to need an answer from my side. He is a man on a mission. He needs to unburden himself and therefore his only requirement is a living soul to hear him out. His monologue lasts a good five minutes without any prompting from my side. Having exhausted praises on my kindness he starts pouring his heart out to me.
Him: "Oh S***! You are so gorgeous. Long hair, beautiful face and your f***ing kind as well! Do you know how beautiful you are?"
I cringe on the inside while trying to look anywhere else but at his general direction. I am glad I am wearing my sun glasses so that I don't have to make eye contact. I feel like laughing at the absurdity of the situation but at the same time I must look disinterested in order to fend him off. How do you shake off advances from an old man?
He evidently thinks he has got the cat in the bag and he makes his move.
Him:"Are you married?".
It strikes me, this is my way out. If I say yes, he might stop. So I nod. He transforms instantly from a hopeful admirer to a tragedy struck lover.
Him : "Damn! That lucky guy. I should have met you sooner then I might have had a chance. Damn! In case there is ever a chance remember Mathew (or Andrew) G from South San Francisco. I am always available. Do you want my number?"
I guess in his optimistic scheme of things, since divorce rates are high in US I am going to be available pretty soon and therefore he still has a chance.
Now there are people arriving at the bus stop. A lady glances at me, taking stock of the situation. I smile, she smiles. Womanhood acknowledging each other. Meanwhile...
Him : "Damn! All the good ones are always taken! Its my bad luck. But you are so beautiful. You can take my number if you want"
Me : (in my most gruffest tone) "Lets just wait for the bus"
Him : "I guess you want to be left alone huh? Ok. I will tell you when the bus comes."
The lady on the side moves. I look at her and she nods saying the bus has come. I quickly side step him and board the bus. Thankfully its not the one he wants.
Him : "Have a good day"
I nod and climb on.
In under ten minutes I was elevated to a gorgeous diva with a heart of gold and offered a hand in marriage. If only he were not an old, penniless, drunkard I might have believed him.
(Every word of this is true. I am only sorry I don't remember more of what he said that day.)